Fairness does not govern life & death. If it did, no good person would ever die young.
Why would people gather when others die? Why people feel they should? The human spirits knows, deep down, that all lives intersect.
Death doesn't just take someone, it misses someone else and in the small distance between being taken and being misses, lives are changed.
There is a balance to it all. One withers, another grows. Birth & death are part of a whole.
Strangers are just family you have yet come to know.
Holding anger is poison. It eats you from inside. We think that hating is a weapon that attacks the person who harmed us. But hatred is a curved blade. And the harm we do, we do to ourselves.